I don’t live to find love, I live to create it

So, I’m getting really tired of people asking me why I’m single or telling me that I must be lonely. I hear it a lot, so I thought I’d address this topic right now.

I think that women have this strange idea that the purpose of life is to find someone to marry. There’s nothing wrong with wanting to be in love and get married, but I guess I see life as more than that.

I don’t live to find love, I live to create it.

Yes, that’s right, this means that I love you, dear reader. I love all living creatures, even those that I find it incredibly difficult to share a room with. I love every living thing on this beautiful planet because I, just like you, am connected to every other organism on Earth.

Whether or not I’m single does not matter to me because even though I may just share my bed with a dog and a cat at night instead of a human, does not mean that I am alone or even lonely. I am far from it. I find my connections in everything that surrounds me, and for me, this is what life is all about.

I am not a person who will ever be one to actively seek out romantic relationships. Romantic love is a beautiful thing, and I have been blessed to have loved before. I am always open to new relationships, but I am proud to say that I am content with myself. I have a very active mind and a compassionate heart. I have a lot to live for. So whenever my next romantic relationship comes I will welcome it with open arms, but until then I am not sad or lonely. I just am.